Chinese proverb

"An invisible red thread connects those who are destined to meet, regardless of time, place or circumstances. The thread may stretch or tangle but will never break."
(ancient Chinese proverb)


Monday, January 1, 2018

Sledding

The girls had lots of sledding fun with cousins the past two days:
{as captured in this picture only post}
 
December 31st
with Charlotte and Whitney
 





January 1st
with Tatum and Teagan
 



 


 



Sunday, December 31, 2017

Dear 2017,

Well, well, well 2017...
You've been quite a year and I must say I'm not sad to see you go. 
You really put us to the test, and in the end we came out still standing...winning actually I'd like to think.

But the journey was hard...hard like we have never experienced before.
Many tears were shed and many prayers were said.
Audra had the hardest fight and suffered the most...week after week in the hospital, day after day having tests and treatments:  MRI, EEGs, spinal tap, bloodwork, med after med after med, PICC line, TPN, IVIG and finally Rituximab. 

And the other kids, my three other babies, they struggled too.
Each time Audra has in the hospital for weeks at a time their world came to a crashing halt. 
They missed their sister and their Mom.  I stayed at the hospital for the entirety of all of Audra's admissions, it just made sense because I work there too. 
And they worried, more than I probably even know. 
They would cry: "how many more days" and "what's wrong with Audra".
It broke my heart one day when Aidan asked me if Audra was going to die.  The fear in his heart was real that day. 

But we were blessed...by many people who stood by us and walked with us.
Phone calls, emails, texts and visits at the hospital.
Gifts for Audra and some for the other kids too.
Meals at home, rides for the kids.
And prayers, lots of prayers!
Audra's Village...can't imagine how we would have done 2017 without you.

Now we are hopefully on the upside of this journey.  We have a diagnosis, a treatment plan and some big goals!  And two great home care nurses who work hard everyday with Audra to keep her well and safe and out of the hospital!

So goodbye 2017, we are done with you.  And there's not much we are going to miss about you {except the beach of course!}
And hello 2018, we have some high expectations for you. 
Let's do this!!

Tuesday, December 26, 2017

Christmas Eve and Day

We spent Christmas Eve at my parents house like we always do, but this year the house was even more full of love, merriment and presents!  My brother and his family were up from North Carolina for the holiday.
 
All of these cousins are growing up way too fast...
{ Maura, Lexy, Riley, Hanah, Brianna, Audra, Aidan
and on the floor Teagan and Tatum}
 



 There are those matching Christmas pajamas again...

Towards the end of the evening some big fluffy snowflakes began to fall,
which delighted Aunt Brownie...who had to run out and get a selfie with the little girls.
 
 Once we got home the kids all went to bed and fell asleep pretty quickly,
they were super excited for the next morning to arrive.
 



 

 
About 8 hours later... 
and MUCH too early for this tired Mama!
 

 (the trash can was part of Aidan's gift from Santa, his real gift was a mini fridge for his room, but Santa must have been worried about all the trash that might accumulate in his room)
 





 
 The whole family gang came over around lunch time.
We munched on food from the crockpots all afternoon long,
had ice cream cake to celebrate Sean's birthday,
and got a tab bit competitive with an ugly sweater Christmas cookie decorating contest.

 

Saturday, December 23, 2017

Elf antics

The darn elf has been a bit high maintenance this year!
 
Shortly after his arrival, when he didn't move for two nights in a row Maura started getting worried.
There was no problem though, he explained himself on her chalkboard and even brought a small gift to make it up to her.
{Sorry Maura, I didn't mean to worry you, I was just having lots of fun at nighttime with your toys!P.S. here's a new toy for you}
 
One morning we found him zip lining from the chandelier to the Christmas tree along with the balloon reindeer and snowman from the YMCA Christmas party:
 
 
 
He was pretty excited for the first snow of the season:
 

Maura lost a tooth one day and the tooth fairy had her back that night...
{Maura, I tied Elfie up with floss so he wouldn't tell Santa that you don't always brush your teeth TWICE a day and floss sometimes. Your welcome!  Love, The Tooth Fairy  p.s. Don't use the floss I tied Elfie up with :)}
 
Maura had a Polar Express viewing party at school one day.  She was allowed to bring a pillow, blanket and stuffed animal which she packed up in a bag the night before.
The next morning we found that Elfie had packed himself for the trip to school too...Safe in a plastic container so he didn't have to worry about getting touched!
 

Friday, December 22, 2017

3rd weekend of Christmas fun

We have had so much fun with Christmas activities this month...and this past weekend (plus a few days this week) were no exception:

Saturday we did our traditional gingerbread houses making with Aunt Kristy and her girls.


As the girls get older they all want to be more independent...
which gets interesting when it involves icing and lots of little sticky candies
 
The end results were pretty good though

Then on Sunday we tried something new...
Foam gingerbread houses !
 YES, it's the next day even though Audra is wearing the same sweatshirt !!
 
I was thinking that this would be a less messy project...
no icing, no sticky candy...

The walls and roof all  snapped together,
then we decorated them with lots and lots of little glittery stickers.

Ok, not a less messy project :)
There were stickers, and paper backings and glitter everywhere!

Monday was Grandparents Day at Audra's school
 My mom helped Audra with some schoolwork and they had lunch together in the cafeteria.

Maura's school celebrated Reindeer day this week,
and she definitely looked the part in her reindeer shirt and antlers, with her light up reindeer plush that she got at the YMCA Christmas party.

The week before Christmas is crunch time with baking...
 Chocolate covered everything you can imagine for the teachers, bus drivers, neighbors and work friends.  New this year was chocolate covered doritos...some loved 'em, some did not!  Sometime chocolate covered pretzels and marshmallows get boring and you need to spice it up!

And it wouldn't be Christmas without cut-out cookies...
 Time was running out this week but Maura helped me frost and decorate these just in time.  Phew!

Ok Christmas....I think I am officially ready for you!